Decisions, decisions....

when people tend to have problems, they're caught in decisions because of side comments.
they're afraid on how others will react, on what they say that could affect them... more like..
they just don't want to hear what others have to say knowing it's contrary to what they REALLY WANT...

Thats a reason why they start to distance..
obviously we're hard headed.. no matter what others say, you don't actually follow them.. Do you?

why? It's because it's their parth, their life... If you say something and they follow it then something goes wrong?
who's in trouble?? Them.. not you... You're barely affected, but to them it's a big sucker punch in the face that labels them a loser leaving them even more miserable than they ever were..

but it doesn't mean that the person shouldn't listen to what others say.. they CAN.. but that's upto them..

One must have the freedom to write their story.. write it the way they want it to be..
not because a buyer or reader discriminated it or wanted to change the concept cause it doesn't fit their taste..

Just like writers... One must not only be a character but the author that no one can plagarise...
just like a book, it contains secrets... a path.. guiding lost ones...
influencing them with Something original..
something unique... something... You wouldn't think of doing but they've done it..

Something you can finally call your own..
A masterpiece...

Your life through hell... Your story.